The most important thing to realize is that every woman is different when it comes to stimulating the clitoris. Many men do not realize that every lady has different wants in the area of clitoris massage. And most guys have only one way of touching and stimulating the clitoris.
The first 토닥이 에이스 skill a guy needs is good communication skills. Communication is a must in sexuality so the man learns what his love really wants. Men need to learn how to ask their lover what is working. The best way for a man to communicate is to ask simple yes no questions, like do you want more pressure, or do you want me to be lighter. Yes no type questions is the best way to communicate in lovemaking.
Some women like a lot of pressure in the clitoris massage and some do not like direct touch at all. Every lady has her preferred way of touching the clitoris. Another way of finding out how your lady likes her clitoris to be touched is to ask her if you can watch her masturbate. This can be challenging for some but well worth asking. Watching your woman masturbate can be very educational and is the best way for a man to learn how to touch the clitoris.
It is sad that sex surveys show that only about 10 % of women have ejaculation orgasms. These types of female orgasms are intense and profound. Unfortunately, most men have little knowledge about how to give their lovers these types of amazing orgasms.
The G-spot is a spongy area along the upper wall of a womans vagina. Generally, you find it by sliding your finger on the upper wall of the vulva, about 1 inch in. Make sure your lover is turned on and wet before finding the g spot. The distance inside the vulva can vary with different women.
Generally, the texture of this spot is different to the other areas of the vulva. It usually has a texture like a walnut. However, just to confuse men, some women have a smooth texture.
A few weeks ago I was talking to a male friend about G Spot massage. In our discussion he told me that the G spot does not exist. This made me sad as it is my experience that when a womans G spot is stimulated, she can have orgasms after orgasms leading to gushing orgasms.
Many women get an urge to urinate when they are very aroused by G spot stimulation . They resist this urge and block the ejaculation response. Sometimes they can get ejaculation responses going down their legs.
Men can also give negative feedback about their womans body fluids too. The ejaculation fluid can be cups for some females and has been tested in laboratories and the composition is not urine.
However, many women have stored fear and deep negative emotions in the G spot area. When this area is touched or massaged they feel nothing or it can be painful etc The man has to be very sensitive in this case.
The best way to achieve gushing orgasms is by combining oral sex and g spot massage. I have put together a simple guide to help men become skilled at giving gushing orgasms at cunnilingus techniques